*”But how do I know for sure?”* You might’ve heard this question from a friend, or it might’ve come from your own mouth. Perhaps you’ve been dating someone seriously, but you aren’t sure how serious it is for this other person. The truth is, some people are slow on the uptake. They need to collect their own feelings before saying them out loud, so be patient (within reason, of course, no one can wait forever). If you’re dying to know how he feels about you, you won’t find the answer out of pure wonder. The following signs will lead you to the answer. While everyone has their own love languages, something should probably look into if you’d like to further build your relationship, these are generally true for people that are falling in love. And if that special someone doesn’t show any of these signs? Well, chances are they may not be on the same page.He’s amazed by how charming you are. It isn’t just about how pretty you look when you fix yourself up, but just the fact that you exist (Sweat pants, hair tied, chillin’ with no make-up on). He’s grateful to have you, someone real, just as you are.
Maybe you’re the type to babble on and on or maybe you’re more timid, but that doesn’t stop him from catching and cherishing those little details. He knows that you take your coffee black, the fact that you love alpacas, and that you put your hair up on days you wake up late. He adores you for them, even if they’re not all that interesting to the average person.
As your relationship deepens, you’re going to discover more about one another. Your beliefs, convictions, fears, and so forth. A guy who’s falling for you will listen to you intently, not blankly, and try to learn more whenever possible, even if he disagrees. You can tell that he cares if he’s paying attention or asking questions. He doesn’t try to teach or lecture you all the time. He’s interested in learning more about your heart.
You might trash talk your own efforts and work, but he’ll look you in the eye and tell you that you can do it. You’ll wonder how he knows this when he doesn’t know you like you know yourself, but that’s what love is about: having faith, or trust in someone completely.
Maybe he’s a neat freak that can’t stand to be in messy rooms, but is more forgiving when it comes to you. Maybe he isn’t religious, but will attend a community church event because it matters to you. He’ll do things that he wouldn’t normally do, because you’re worth it to him. This doesn’t mean you should expect the person you’re dating to go out of their comfort zone all the time, but when they do, you should acknowledge it and be grateful.
Whether it’s through a short and sweet message or a surprise visit, you know that he misses you because he finds some way to show it. If he keeps you guessing, then it’s probably because his priorities and attention are somewhere else.
No, you didn’t hire him to be a handy man and no, you don’t need any saving, but he’s happy to make your life a little easier whenever possible. With or without you asking, he likes to feel like he can be useful to you.
When you first started dating, you could feel his nervousness every time you touched. He may still be nervous, but now it’s more natural for him to grab your hand or wrap his arms around your waist. He just can’t get enough of you.
Sure, everyone gets jealous, and trust takes a long time to build, but a guy in love knows better to step back a bit. He may want to see you, but knows that crowding you is a turn off and also understands the importance of self-growth. You took care of yourself before you met him, and that’s probably what attracted him from the get-go.
No matter how busy he is, he’ll make it work because he looks forward to every chance he gets to see you. If he rearranges his schedule for you, then he just might be falling for you.
This might sound silly to some people, but sometimes you just get the feeling that he’s falling for you. Of course, this isn’t just a feeling alone. You feel vulnerable to him and you’ve noticed that he’s vulnerable to you, too, through the little things that he does.
You might be focused on school, your career, or have a recital or competition coming up. He makes sure to celebrate your successes, no matter how little, and be there to support you. If he consistently attends events that are important to you, then you just might be in his future plans.
