We are always sending messages to others consciously and unconsciously. How we sit, stand, and the eye contact we make with others sends strong messages. Many times what we say and what our body language says are two different things. Aldis Kalnins posted these valuable tips on his page, [Wondersbook](http://wondersbook.wordpress.com/). > By a man’s fingernails, by his coat-sleeve, by his boots, by his trouser-knees, by the calluses of his forefinger and thumb, by his expression, by his shirt-cuffs, by his movements – by each of these things a man’s calling is plainly revealed. That all united should fail to enlighten the competent enquirer in any case is almost inconceivable. > ~~Sherlock Holmes, 1892~~
