When it comes to attraction, we all have affinities towards different things. For example, some women may be turned on by accents while others may be attracted to only tall men. These are characteristics that a man can’t really change about himself, but don’t give up hope just yet. Fortunately, women are often surprised to find themselves falling for men who don’t fit their initial, sometimes impossible, requirements because they discover that there are other qualities that have more of a lasting effect on them. When you are turned by someone, it is a physical experience. But it can also be emotional and intellectual, or a combination. Ever met a woman who fell for their professor? Chances are it wasn’t because of their good looks. It was more likely because of their knowledge and passion, which can be extremely sexy. Take a look at this list of turn-ons and let us know which ones are most important to you. If you’d like, let us know about some unique ones you might have!A sense of humor can be very sexy. It allows you both to practice playfulness and associate the bond with positive, easygoing vibes, not difficult ones. That doesn’t mean to offer up a joke whenever possible, so determine whether or not the moment is appropriate. Share a funny story and be a good sport when she pokes fun at you.
Some people don’t really listen and are only waiting for their turn to talk. Don’t be that guy. Women want to know that what they’re saying matters, and if you’re dating her, then it should very well matter. Ask her thoughtful questions and don’t run her over with your own thoughts. You may come off as cocky if you do.
This one may not apply to all women, so make sure to observe her reactions before yanking away. Some woman have commented that it feels very intimate when a man plays with her hair while others said it was playful and flirty.
We won’t mean that you should practice on other people or orchestrate the perfect kiss, if there is such a thing. What we mean is that you should be more aware of the details. Make sure your lips aren’t chapped and that you’re giving us breathing room. Move your hands to places that we like to be touched. If you’re not sure, ask us. If you’ve just finished eating, wash your mouth or pop a mint.
Not all guys can carry themselves with the same loud confidence, but that’s something that you can work through. It starts with intentionality. You can show your confidence in quiet ways, if that’s your style, just as long as you’re communicative.
This goes back to intentionality. We want to know that your heart is in the right place. You don’t have to be a doctor to be a good person. If you really care about something — dogs, music, photography, travel, for example — it can be a turn on. Please note that passion is different from obsession. We’re understanding, but if all you talk about is Pokémon Go, then it can be a huge turn off (that is unless we are also fans, then blabber away).
This is especially true if you’re just starting out. We all have different expectations of when things should happen, but how fast a couple moves in their relationship will depend on a number of factors. Don’t assume that something is wrong if you’re moving at different paces. She’ll notice that you’re being respectful and will appreciate you all the more for it.
What’s sexier than a man that smells really, really good? Good hygiene will have us turning our heads without us ever even seeing your face. Take care of your body as best possible, and we’ll notice.
Not all women are into super muscular bodies. It’s great if you take care of your body by eating well and exercising, but what we really want is to show us your abilities to get through tough situations. Stand up for what you believe in whenever the opportunity arises.
The deeper you get into a relationship, it can get pretty routine. And hey, there’s nothing wrong with that. When you have routine, you have a sense of trust and stability. But don’t be afraid to throw in a few surprises. When you do this, you exhibit thoughtfulness and creativity, and who isn’t turned on by that? Surprises can make a woman feel brand new.